Are you trying to fill a hole in yourself?
- Carolina Cummins
- Nov 3, 2022
- 3 min read
When you are feeling a void or a hole inside yourself LISTEN to it! There is a reason for it that MUST be acknowledged!
Most of us heart-centered women carry on with our survival tactics like 'let's have a nice glass of wine or 'shopping will cheer me up' or 'let's go out for a spa day to feel better!' But you KNOW that doing these things don't fill your inner void!
Becoming more aware of the hole that you're trying to fill so desperately is really the FIRST STEP. You need to look deep inside yourself and uncover what this void is telling you.
But what you've been doing is avoiding it!
As if you're not strong and powerful enough to FACE it!?! You know you are a powerful Being if you didn't have this feeling of lacking Love in you.
Start with feeling what is present. Connect with the emotion. OWN those feelings. And then allow them to be there.
Doing this means you need to quiet your mind and stop telling yourself the stories that you've been assuming because a family member or friend doesn't understand you or because the guy didn't want to continue with the relationship or because you didn't get the love or approval you wanted. Find out what beliefs are you repeating in your head again and again. These beliefs are creating your reality AND are holding back the natural flow of divine abundance that is wanting to bring you the desires you are feeling. They are the reason why you are feeling that void in you!
Basically, when you are going deep enough, asking yourself 'How come I feel this way?' what comes up is that you are in fact in some way not feeling loved, right? Because you are perceiving yourself as not good enough in some way or not accepted, not wanted, not loved as you are.
So you're running these assumptions in you like software and because you have not yet met up with the Inner Child who is most likely feeling this pain of not being loved as she is, it keeps coming up again and again.
When you are reconnected to your True Self the doors to the goodies, the new relationship, the amazing dream clients, the better career come along, plus we get the freedom you crave, the endless Joy you love and the appreciation of life multiplies. And you'd have the loving, LIFE-praising, joyous thoughts that go along with Being aligned with your True Self.
If you were not holding all that goodness back with your false, untrue beliefs you'd feel loved and connected with your True Self = >No more void = > I LOVE myself as I Am!
So how do you disidentify from these beliefs and dissolve these hindering thoughts?
In my 1:1 Rediscover Your Radiance journey I am assisting you with exactly that. I help you to uncover the real reason for your tendency to blame others or complain about people's behaviour or feel attacked or hurt by others. We work on resolving the emotional triggers you've had since childhood (or longer) to free yourself from the painful feeling of not being loved or wanted so that you can clear that void experience and finally reconnect to your own Love.
I've had that inner pain for decades and have found my way back Home to my Heart where I am in Love, Peace, and Joy.
I'd be honoured to assist you to do the same.
I will also show you when you are coming from your ego mind and share my spiritual wisdom with you so that you can upgrade your consciousness to being a conscious creator instead of a victim of some sort.
If this sounds interesting to you please book yourself a COMPLIMENTARY Rediscover Your Radiance session with me to find out what is really causing your inner pain:

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