Does it scare you to be vulnerable?

There is a little bit of fear in me when I am openly sharing personal emotional details on social media platforms, although I really like being so open, because in my world that is the way to be authentic and loving.

But I am still a little scared of other people's judgement.

You might know that one?

I know this comes from the instinct of needing to be accepted in the social tribe.

And it also comes from the knowledge that I am doing something that most people don't do. To be honest, I might be an outsider!

Can you relate?

All your life you've been wanting to #BEYOURSELF, act as your authentic YOU. INCLUDING being vulnerable, but the fear of being judged or criticed stopped you for decades.

>>You always felt that you have to pretend that you were all right, no matter how you really felt.

>>You thought people do not accept you or like you if you were feeling anything that is not the normal 'pleasantness' that you usually are.

>>Being so sensitive to energies, you could tell when people did not approve of your behaviour from very early on, and you always had to put on a brave face.

>>Even though it has felt sooo uncomfortable doing the pretending game!

And you paid a high price for it! You didn't listen to your inner guidance and lost your self-love.

Getting close to someone has not been easy, because of this inability to simply speak your truth.

You always think that it's too risky to open yourself up.

You believe that you could lose that person if you did.

So you've created survival mechanisms and kept yourself small and hidden away. You simply did what you thought others wanted to hear.

And that resulted in being disconnected to your Self!!

The thing is, when you are not being truthful, open and authentic, you are keeping certain aspects of yourself hidden, out of shame, and you are not shining your full LIGHT.

Result: You are running on a compromised engine.

AND to be honest, it feels uncomfortable or odd to the other person you're talking to as well when you are not saying how you really feel. They can feel the lack of flow between the two of you, and they can not really connect with you.

The relationship becomes awkward or difficult and you cannot really develop a deep love or trust for yourself.

Hence you are in need of the other person to give you the love and acceptance!

One of my clients had this lack of connection all her life due to her fear of responsibility and being vulnerable.

And as soon as we went deeper, reconnected with that very old fear, that stemmed from a past life, and then released it using one of my intuitively guided energy healing processes, she felt straight away connected to her Soul group.

This was amazing!

She already had done loads of healing work and had come a long way being a highly sensitive, and highly psychic ex-social phobia candidate.

What healed her fear was the light of her Soul, that I guided her to direct towards her past self, who experienced the fear. She showered herself with the powerful light and felt an instant shift!

Without using one of the three transformational energies I teach the old pains often do not fully dissolve.

I hear from my clients and other fellow lightworkers that they still get triggered, although they have done so much inner work.

Afterwards, my client had this amazing insight:

"I do feel like I am where I need to be.

All I ever needed to do was be honest about my fears, and my doubts and my insecurities the moment they arise and show my weakness and have the strength to speak it in that moment, which automatically turns it into the strength that it is, which then opens up the connection with all of life."

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THIS IS SUCH A POWERFUL INSIGHT! Her strength was there all along, but hidden behind the fear!

Are YOU also sitting in front of a long-standing fear of being vulnerable, that hinders you from BEING YOURSELF truly, naturally and authentically?

And are you ready to finally face everything you have tried to hide and release it for good?

If so, I like to invite you to a complimentary 1:1 Rediscover Your Radiance call with me where we uncover what has been keeping you playing small, what you want to experience instead and how I could help you if we are a good fit.